"No, do you know what a purity ring is?"
"Well, it's a promise to not do anything with boys until I find my husband and I want one"
She has mentioned it no less than 1/2 dozen times since then, so we started scouting for one. I send hubs numerous links and he kept saying "Nope, not good enough, her purity isn't "cheap" so I want her to have something nice"
This is what we landed on. Hubs wasn't happy that the love waits is on the outside instead of the inside. He thinks that will say "challenge" to bratty boys. I think if she's strong enough to be thinking this, this will help her.
He also didn't want the religious ones since she wasn't making a religious statement, but a statement about how she personally believes for her own reasons.
I realize this doesn't mean she will not change her mind, but this gives me more hope than you can imagine.
Based on her past and the risk factors, as well as the mistakes she's made with her phone, one of my big fears has always been her getting physically involved with somebody before she's ready.
The fact that she wants this reminder and is already planning gives me so much hope.
I'm so proud of my baby girl.