So much progress with attachment and anxiety has been made since then.
Needless to say, I was dreading her going back to school.
Back to School night was the day before vacation and she was having anxiety just on the way to the IPad meeting. I thought we were going to have a meltdown, but she sucked it up and made it inside and found a couple of her best school friends and was glad she went because she missed them.
We're a week in, 2nd day of school, she was in tears when I dropped her off (but in all fairness, had physical therapy that morning and was late to school as a result, both pain and off schedule was bad). I was worried it would develop a habit, but she's been fine all week.
Her and BFF still are trying to talk daddy into home schooling them, but they're not making progress.
Hoping for a smooth school year. Smoother summer than normal, so optimistic that we're on a good path now.