Saturday, August 20, 2016
Given that's probably a good time of the year to get a decent deal on a car, we are going to try to accomodate that request.
However, I've been wracking my brain trying to think of ways to make it even more fun and special than getting a car is anyway.
When I was 17, for Christmas, I had 5 packages under the tree. My family had a tradition where we opened one gift on Christmas Eve and the rest on Christmas morning. The "big" present was never allowed on Christmas Eve, of course.
The present I opened on Christmas Eve was a box of gravel with a note not to spin in the gravel.
The next morning, I was told the big box had to be last.
I opened up 3 boxes that had notes in them: "new seat covers, new tires, new paint job".
My silly self thought that meant they were going to do all this to my Flintstone mobile. That final box though.....had about 6 boxes inside of it. The final box was a set of keys.
That wasn't all though.
Dad was laughing his head off and said "now, to see how good you are.....the car isn't here, but it IS at a neighbors house. Let's go outside and walk around the block and when you think you see a car that could be yours, go see if the keys will crank it"
No pressure, right?
I mean, it was Christmas. Nearly every house on the street had extra cars there because of family visiting.
I went by several cars and didn't try them out. He kept saying "Nothing striking your fancy, what if you don't like it?" I knew, just knew that I hadn't passed it yet. Then I started REALLY squealing.
I got ready to jump in the car and dad said "are you sure you're not jumping in a neighbors family members car? Don't yell so loud, you don't want the neighbors to wake up and have you arrested for breaking in their car or something"
It was mine. I knew.
Yeah, I loved it, but as much as the car itself (and God knows as a teenager, having a cool car was amazing and fun without the other stuff) was the thought put into making getting it special and fun.
I want to do that for kiddo.
The stumbling blocks: 1) we go overboard on gifts so lack of gifts under tree will give it away 2) we don't live in a neighborhood, we're in the country and no neighbors that we could hide a car at 3) she knows my story, she'd totally suspect the whole "nesting boxes" as the presentation.
So, here it is.....shortly after midnight, all is quiet and all are asleep when I decided what to do.
I'll ask bestie if I can hide the car at her house until Christmas Eve and then park it behind the nearby church that I can walk to. In the middle of the night I'll walk to it and drive it home.
The keys will not be in a nesting box. We'll go ahead and get her gifts, but majorly bargain shop so she doesn't suspect. The gift DOES have to be the last one opened though. When it's not a big box, she'll assume it's not that.
Inside will be this jewelry box that she'll be getting for Christmas. She'll assume because it has the daughter stuff on it and mushy, that that's the reason we consider it the special wait til the end gift.
Inside will be this keychain with her new key on it.
Looking forward to the holidays once again this year.
She's so worth it.
I'm sorta leaning towards a "clue" in some of the other gifts.
1--a banana, whether fake or real and 2--a turtle
We've been teasing her that our big worry about her driving is her experience with Mario Kart. She threatens to bring turtles and bananas to throw out the window on our way to school for idiot drivers that behave poorly.
Thursday, August 11, 2016
Wednesday, August 10, 2016
Hotdogs for lunch, a ton of pool play, pizza for dinner, more pool play, a gaggle of girls laughing and watching movies at night and back in the pool first thing in the morning.
Kiddo is enrolled in a new program at her school and her bestie didn't enroll in it.
The program is more about creating a learning environment that matches real world experiences and helps with critical thinking. We thought it'd be good going into high school, knowing she wouldn't have classes with at least 2 of her besties for them to get together and bond, going to high school stronger than normal.
They were all great, but man, can they eat!
Who knew teen girls ate even more than the stereotype of teen boys.
It was a major success.
Some of the girls were crashing on the floats the next day, several were late leaving, some begged to stay. One I'm concerned about. I think we'll invite her over very soon for a few visits. There is something nagging at me that something is wrong, and she needs to know she has a safe place to share and get help if needed.
Maybe we should find some cheaper food options next time though. I know it was no less than 36 drinks and 40 mini-bags of chips for 5 girls? and I thought kiddo ate alot. She has nothing on these girls.
The closeness she now has with some of these kids as gotten stronger and I think she's in for a fun freshman year.
I'm looking forward to seeing how she does in this new program. One of her friends mom told us she wanted to take her kid out of the program because she felt it would be so hard on her daughter. I told her that I thought it would be hard initially, but they'd learn so much. She's afraid of bad grades. I'd rather her have bad grades and be learning than good grades and not get anything out of school though.
We shall see....we shall see....
Today she said she was really starting to get excited.
When we got to school though, getting out of the car was a different story. She said "I think I'll just stay in the car a few minutes, I'm nervous"
So proud though, no meltdown, no acting out, just "let me sit a minute" and went on with it happily.
So, kiddo started high school today. We've come a long way since she arrived back in 5th grade and I'm so proud of her.
Starting a new journey isn't easy with her anxiety though and high school is a big step. I was going to put a letter in her lunchbox, but she decided not to pack lunch, so this went in her bookbag and who knows if she found it.