We were invited to spend Thanksgiving Day with S and her new family.
I was hesitant to say yes, thinking first overnight and not moved in yet, plus first holiday for the siblings together since being separated.
The SW though, said unless it would adversely affect kiddo, they would really appreciate it if we could say yes though, because they're struggling with convincing S that she can still see her sis after adoption and for them to have us for a holiday together would go miles to help prove their willingness to maintain the connection.
We went, we had a good time, but it was a little odd to spend Thanksgiving with people we barely know (outside of S). They are really nice and we're optimistic that it will work.
We left when we noticed that kiddo seemed to be getting a little tired of the constant attention. I think we'll save holiday visits for a day near the holiday instead of the actual holiday. We all missed our traditions, totally want to spend time with them again, it was fun, just not on the holiday.
We came home and put our tree up and had our Thanksgiving meal on Saturday at home.